I was born and I grew up in Gainesville, Georgia Hall County. My mom took care of the house, laundry, groceries, cooking, and let me say we NEVER once questioned my father’s income!! It was never a discussion. We never once discussed how my parents voted or for whom. We ate homemade meals consisting of meat, potatoes, and vegetables. We never touched anything that did not belong to us. We never opened a refrigerator at anyone’s house unless asked to do so. We didn’t look in people’s closets or drawers. We were taught to respect other peoples property. And we were rewarded for acting properly.We grew up during a time when we mowed lawns, pulled weeds, babysat, helped with all chores. We, by no means, were given everything we wanted. We went outside a lot to play, run with friends, play hide and seek, or went bike riding.Bottled water was unheard of, if we wanted water we drank straight from the faucet or hose. If we had a soda, it was in a glass bottle, most of the time it was at our grandparents houseand we didnโ€™t break the bottle when finished. We saved the bottle for the return money.We had to tell our parents where we were going, who we were going with, and be home before dark.You ๐‘ณ๐‘ฌ๐‘จ๐‘น๐‘ต๐‘ฌ๐‘ซ from your parents instead of disrespecting them and treating them as if they knew absolutely nothing. What they said was ๐‘ณ๐‘จ๐‘พ and you did not question it and you had better know it! We watched what we said around our elders and neighbors because we knew if we ๐‘ซ๐‘ฐ๐‘บ๐‘น๐‘ฌ๐‘บ๐‘ท๐‘ฌ๐‘ช๐‘ป๐‘ฌ๐‘ซ any grown-up, we would get a real good whooping, it wasn’t called abuse, it was called discipline!We held the doors for others and carried the shopping into the house. We gave up our seat for an older person without being asked.You didn’t hear swear words on the radio in songs or on TV. “Please and Thank you”, were part of our daily vocabulary!The world we live in now is just so full of people who hate and disrespect others.Friends, consider re-posting if you’re thankful for your childhood. I will ๐‘ต๐‘ฌ๐‘ฝ๐‘ฌ๐‘น ๐‘ญ๐‘ถ๐‘น๐‘ฎ๐‘ฌ๐‘ป where I came from and only wish children and people nowadays had half the chance at the fun and respect for real life we grew up with! And we were never bored!This is exactly the way I grew up, if you did too, copy and paste (change where YOU grew up if necessary.)

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Jay W. MacIntosh (born Janet Tallulah Jewell) is a retired attorney, actress, and writer from the United States, living in Paris, France. She is a member of the California Bar and selected to the 2018, 2019, 2020 Southern California Super Lawyers list. She holds a Masterโ€™s Degree in Drama from the University of Georgia and is a member of Phi Beta Kappa, Phi Kappa Phi, and Zodiac Scholastic Society. As an actress, she is a member of The Actors Studio, the Academy of Television Arts & Sciences (ATAS), SAG-AFTRA, and ASCAP, performing in film and television in the United States and France. Her published works include Journal of Janet Tallulah, Volume 1, Journal of Janet Tallulah, Volume 2, The Origins of George Bernard Shawโ€™s Life Force Philosophy, Moments in Time, Capturing Beauty, JAYSPEAK on the Cรดte dโ€™Azur, and Janet Tallulah.

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