TYPICAL MORNING WALKS – NOVEMBRE 2017

I have had a love affair with the Sea for as long as I can remember. There is something about being near it that satisfies my longing for peace, even for a moment.  In 1968, I traveled across the United States to live by the Sea. (Yes, I know, the Atlantic was closer, but I wanted the Pacific and the mountains at the same time.)  For seventeen years, I lived in Pacific Palisades – near the Sea. Breathing Sea air.  I loved every minute. The juxtaposition of sea and mountains was beautiful to me – every day. Still is.  During those years in Los Angeles, I would jog down Tesmescal Canyon, run a mile or two along the coast and breathe a lot.  Or, walk up the steps from Santa Monica Canyon to Palisades Park in Santa Monica. Then, run to the pier and back, always stopping at the rose garden to take in the blooms.  Over the years, I drove by the sea whenever I could, went to the beach a lot, and did “Seatreks” from time to time. My heart is happy thinking about it.

Once again, since my move into Nice Centre, I live near the Sea, this time the Mediterranean. Same idea – water and mountains at the same time. I love it. It is now the focus of my morning walks. I like to get up and out by 7:30 a.m., if possible. No later than 8:00 a.m. That changes as days get shorter or longer. The city is just waking up.

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I walk down my street, Rue de Lepante, and head for Old Town, cutting through side streets, exploring here and there.

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I like entering Old Town down the steps (by the Italian Market) to the Plaza and by the fountain in front of the Court House.  Sometimes, I go right to the Sea. Other times, I walk by Flower Market vendors setting up their stalls.  Thursday, I am going straight to the Sea before heading toward the Flower Market route back home.

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I turn right, go through the arches, and VOILA!  There is the Flower, Fruit, Vegetables, Meat, Fish, and more Market.

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I leave the market, cross the Plaza in front of the Court House, and head for breakfast at Lou Pastrouil’s – fresh orange juice, croissant, and coffee.  Early in the morning, the only people out are those of us who exercise in the early mornings.  The rest of Nice is just getting up. 

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Then, I head home. At that point, I have walked approximately 2.6 miles.  Then, walk another mile home.  

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It is fun. I will admit, after walking 3.6 miles, I am tired. So, I only do that when I don’t have an appointment or meeting of some sort. Otherwise, I walk to and from the meeting or appointment. Every day, I walk somewhere. I still drive when I go on a trip to Valbonne to my luncheons. And, this week, I hit golf balls at Golf de Biot. I drove there. Otherwise, I walk. This is a lifestyle I did not see in my dreams, but, come to think of it, I like it.  HAPPY THANKSGIVING, EVERYBODY!!

Best, Jay

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#SmartAuthor “FIGURING THINGS OUT”

From one #SmartAuthor to others, I continue to be ‘berry beezy’ in France, figuring things out. It is not easy, being an expat. Each day is full of its own challenges in real life and online. Nothing is as it seems – like opening a door, flushing the john, turning on water, working an elevator, reading French directions/ingredients, or finding a street sign, if at all.  It is definitely a challenge to guess what floor a doctor is on.

It’s back to basics.

This week, I have been pondering my coping skills and how to “figure things out”.  Upon reflection, I realize that I have been “figuring things out” since I can remember – losing my blanket, dancing with turquoise scarfs in kindergarten, understanding Miss Bessie, coping with Mrs. Dent, doing long division, avoiding plane geometry, playing Indian with a pitcher of beer, going through “Rush Week” at the University of Wisconsin, liking mid-Westerners, driving through Brooks Army Medical Center, writing a thesis, auditioning for plays, singing second soprano, playing Chopin’s Revolutionary Etude, teaching college kids, moving west, getting an agent, doing fixers, remembering lines, writing briefs, passing the California Bar Exam, litigating cases, moving to France, and taking right exits at round-abouts.  The good news is I’m getting better at figuring things out. The bad new is – I HAVE TO FIGURE EVERY DAMN THING OUT!  I feel overwhelmed just reading this list, much less writing it. (Note to Self:  The French are not great at “customer service”. “Buyer Beware” comes to mind.) 

Online is easier. Writing or publishing books is like a breath of fresh air (including reading news – good, bad, indifferent) and unfollowing people on Facebook and Twitter. I’m getting better at that, too, thanks to Mark Coker’s podcasts. Granted, Smashwords has its own challenges, but each one is engrossing and doable.

This week, Mark talks about how to get a public library to want Steve Orlandella’s and my books. Actually, the University of North Georgia (former Gainesville Junior College) has my The Origins of George Bernard Shaw’s Life Force Philosophy in it.

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Steve’s Titanic, The Game, and five Vic Landell mysteries are perfect for public libraries.  Even Stevespeak, 3 Years on Facebook

This is what Smashwords has to say about it: 

“1. HOW TO MARKET INDIE EBOOKS TO LIBRARIES

At Smashwords, we love libraries, which explains why over the last few years we’ve built out an incredible library ebook distribution network to OverDrive, Baker & Taylor Axis 360, Odilo, CloudLibrary, and Gardners.

Public libraries are engines of book discovery. Millions of readers discover their new favorite authors at public libraries, and then go on to purchase other books by the same authors at retail.

If you want to sell more ebooks at retail, sell more ebooks to libraries.

In Episode 6 of the Smart Author Podcast, out today, you’ll learn how to sell more ebooks to libraries. You’ll learn how librarians discover, curate, purchase, and manage ebooks. You’ll learn how, when, and where to contact librarians so you’re a valued resource and not a nuisance.

You’ll learn six marketing tips you can put to use today.

We hope you’re enjoying the Smart Author Podcast. The feedback from authors and publishers around the world has been gratifying. We’re so pleased to make this quality best practices knowledge available for free to authors everywhere, and in such an accessible and convenient format.

If you’re enjoying the Smart Author Podcast, please share it with a friend!

Coming up next Friday, November 17, is an extra special Episode 7 on the “2017 Smashwords Survey.” Be sure to subscribe today at Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast source listed below so you can be the first to hear it. Mark will share new, never-before-released data.

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You’ll find edited transcripts of each episode at our Smart Author hub page at Smashwords.

Join us at Facebook at the official Smart Author Facebook Page where you can discuss each episode with fellow listeners, or pose questions following each episode.

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2. HELPFUL RESOURCES

Thanks for choosing Smashwords for your ebook publishing and distribution.

When you distribute with Smashwords, you’re directly supporting our ability to create exciting new tools and opportunities for you.

Thanks,

The Smashwords Team”

Best, Jay

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#SmartAuthor WRITE THAT BOOK!! JUST DO IT!!

#smartauthor  I started writing in 2012. Well, that is not really true. I started writing when I was a little girl.  The first “Diary” I have is dated 1949.  I wanted to record things – thoughts, secrets, events. I want to spend time with my best friend – ME. 

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During the day, I “behaved” – at the table, to the neighbors, at school, to relatives, to shopkeepers, to salesladies, to Sunday School teachers, to the Preacher.  Ugh. I started writing before 1949.  Over the years, I wrote journals, poems, plays, lyrics, research papers, critiques, knowing “one day” I would write books. 

Well, thanks to Mark Coker, Lee Goldberg, and Derek Haas, “one day” arrived in 2012, at a Writers Guild of America workshop in Los Angeles.  The topic for discussion was self-publishing, eBooks, and subsequent legal considerations. I was legal counsel (copyright and publication issues) on the Panel.  The speakers were dynamic. The atmosphere and interest in that room was inspiring. I came home and began to self-publish.  My first project was the publication of my work, “The Origins of George Bernard Shaw’s Life Force Philosophy”. It was my thesis I wrote for my Masters Degree in Drama at the University of Georgia. It got attention at the University for a short period of time and was used as a textbook in How to Write a Thesis by a University professor.  It was a perfect “let’s see if I can really do this” project.  After that, I published two journals – which were  awkward, learning experiences.  Then, I published “Janet Tallulah”, “Moments in Time”, “Capturing Beauty”, and “JAYSPEAK on the Cote d’Azur”.  The George Bernard Shaw book and “Janet Tallulah” are both published on Smashwords. All of my books are published on amazon.com. I have unpublished two of the Journals for further editing.  I am currently working on my next journal, working title “My Best Friend”.  

Since 2012, friends and strangers have asked me about self-publishing and eBooks.  Everyone seems to have projects, plays, novels, or writings they want to publish but don’t follow through.  Do it. It is easy.  And, now, Mark Coker will help you.  His podcasts for writers are excellent.  Take a look.  

  1. SMART AUTHOR PODCAST– FIRST FIVE EPISODES AVAILABLE NOW!

Hosted by Smashwords founder Mark Coker, The Smart Author Podcast guides writers step-by-step from the very basics of ebook publishing to more advanced topics. Think of it as a free masterclass in ebook publishing best practices.  If you’ve never had the opportunity to attend one of Mark’s recent classes at a writer’s conference, now’s your chance to do it from the comfort of your own home or car.

Where to Listen and Subscribe:

Episodes CURRENTLY RELEASED (we recommend listening in sequential order):

  • 7 Trends Shaping the Future of Authorship – learn seven trends shaping your future as an author.
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  • 16 Bestseller Secrets – learn how to make your book more discoverable, more desirable and more enjoyable to readers.
  • How to Sell More Ebooks with Preorders – learn how 12% of Smashwords authors are using preorders to vacuum up over 50% of the sales, and learn how you can put preorders to use today to make your next release more successful.
  • Working with Beta Readers
  • 11/10 – Marketing to Libraries
  • 11/17 – Smashwords Survey 2017
  • 11/24 – The Art of Delusion (How to keep writing despite inevitable challenges)

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Following the release of each episode, we’ll post supplemental links and resources along with edited transcripts at our Smart Author hub page at Smashwords. The full transcripts for the first four episodes are up now!

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  1. JOIN THE ANNUAL SMASHWORDS NANOWRIMO PROMO

National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo) kicks off November 1.

Each month, thousands of writers around the world take on the challenge to write a 50,000 word novel in 30 days.

If you’re participating in NaNoWriMo, join the Smashwords NaNoWriMo Promo! For the entire month of November, we’re showcasing the works in progress of Smashwords authors in a special NaNoWriMo Promo catalog on the Smashwords home page.

To join our promotional catalog and gain more exposure to readers, starting November 1 you can upload your WIP to a special NaNoWriMo version of the Smashwords publish page, and then as you make progress, just visit to your Smashwords Dashboard, click “upload new version,” and then your book and your word count progress will update on our NaNoWriMo Promo page.

More information at https://www.smashwords.com/about/nanowrimo

  1. HELPFUL RESOURCES

 

My first book on Smashwords  #smartauthor   :

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https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/152348

My Second book on Smashwords #smartauthor  :

 

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https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/269445

All of my Books are now on smashwords.com, including the latest “JAYSPEAK on the Cote d’Azur” #smartauthor :

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Best, Jay

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DODGER BASEBALL AND STEVE ORLANDELLA

How ’bout them Dodgers!! YES!  Here’s to the Dodgers! MY baseball team. OUR baseball team. Win or lose, Dodger Blue forever!!  OK, we all know that Steve was a member of the Red Sox Nation, but he had a LOT of room in his heart for the Dodgers.  Joe Quasarano, “Vinny” Scully, Elaina Habeeb Fote, Don Drysdale, …. Love and respect.

The Dodgers were central to our lives. We met at Dodger Stadium. It was a Tuesday afternoon – June 29, 1993. I was making a KTLA televised presentation to Oral Hershiser on behalf of Very Special Arts California. Steve was supposed to shoot it. At the same time, he was shooting a special about the players’ wives. Somehow, he had to “work my shoot in”. He made me wait, and wait, and wait, and…. I got furious, told him off, and the rest is history.

He excelled at what he did.  Witness – his Emmy, which says:

“1993 LOS ANGELES AREA EMMY AWARDS

SPORTS SERIES

LOS ANGELES DODGERS: PRE-GAME

Steve Orlandella, Producer

KTLA”

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And, another Emmy, which says:

“1997 LOS ANGELES EMMY AWARDS

SPORTS SPECIAL

HERE’S TO YOU, MR. ROBINSON

STEVE ORLANDELLA, Producer

KTLA”

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Steve loved the game. Always did.

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He loved stadiums, sound trucks, crews, Vin Scully, travelling from city to city, going to games, producing the games, the camaraderie.  All of it.  He subscribed to baseball channels in the U.S. and in France and on the Internet.  He had baseball games on television or on his computer, both going at all hours of the day and night. He couldn’t get enough. And, today, he would love watching this world series, no matter what he had to do to see it.

So, here’s to the Dodgers, here’s to the World Series, here’ to Steve, and here’s to Steve’s gift to all of us, THE GAME.  Get his book. Put it on your bookshelf.  It contains his love of the game, his flaws, his knowledge, his trivia, his personality, his wry comments, all there, written in his unique style.  

The Game

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If you love or just like baseball, this is a must read.  Steve’s language is wonderful and the pages turn by themselves.  I sat down to glance at the book, and didn’t put it down until I had read all of it.  Extra special for the Dodger fans in the world.  Don’t miss the chance to feel as if you too were there.
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When Steve was in the hospital, Vin Scully aired live at Dodger Game a message to Steve, that everyone was pulling for him.  During one of the few times that Steve was conscious, I played that clip for him – several times. It was one of the last times that I say him smile. 
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I miss my guy.
Best, Jay
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A WEEK IN THE LIFE – COTE D’AZUR

I am very beezzy.  If you have anything you need me to do, the answer will be, “No, I’m too ‘beezzy’” (joke between Steve and me).  This past week, I attended to my health – my “medical catch-up” week.   Monday, I had my annual physical with Dr. Blanc and got a flu shot; Tuesday, I had a blood test at my neighborhood Labazur (laboratory); Wednesday, I got the flu; Thursday, I got the lab results; and Friday, I discussed my health with Dr. Blanc (as best I could in broken French (haha)), and got the news.  My stats are “very good”.  Vitamin D is down. (Well, duh, I am staying out of the sun because I don’t want the melanoma to return.) I must drink a vial of Vitamin D once a month for six months. OK.  Liquid sunshine.  Not that any of you care about my health, but I am glad to know that if I feel like a piece of you-know-what, get the flu from the flu shot, cry a lot, and complain, it is just my personality. Not my health.

Wait, there’s more.

Tuesday, my friends Slav and his wife Andrea helped me decorate the walls with art work!  Took three hours, but we did it! AND, It looks great, if I do say so myself.  It feels like home. (Just for the record, I hung the small ones.)  The large ones required drilling holes for special plugs in concrete. Slav knew just what to do.  Andrea helped. I watched and gave instructions. Haha. That is the way I do my best work.  Now, I have more art than walls – two are hanging outside. One is under an awning.  But, the other one is subject to the elements. Oh, well, if it gets ruined, it will be easier to throw away.  I know that is not the right attitude, but I have nowhere to store anything, and that picture is one of my least favorite. Yet, I cannot part with any of them. I love them all – even though I question our wisdom (Steve and mine), lugging all that art from California to France. (Sigh.)

Wednesday, I went to the Flower Market http://www.nicetourisme.com/nice/1396-marche-aux-fleurs-cours-saleya for photo-ops and realized I had the flu. I still took dozens of pictures for a week of photo-postings, then went home to recover from the flu. (Sigh.) Postings to follow.

Thursday, I got my hair cut and colored with blotchy streaks.  Just when I think I will let it grow longer because I feel more feminine when it is longer, or grow out to its natural color, I cut and color it. Happens like clockwork.  So, on Thursday, I went to my favorite salon. http://www.silvercoiffeur.com/  Christelle (sp?) is wonderful at color.  (I found her by asking a woman who works in Tanagra http://www.tanagra-nice.com/  – where I get my pedicures, who does her color.)  And, David Silver – the owner – cuts it.  I love them both. Only this week, I think I gave David too many instructions of what to do. Let’s face it, I never know what to say to a beautician. If I say too much, they take it personally. If I don’t say anything, I hate the haircut. If I say the blow dryer is too hot, they take it personally. If I say the bangs are too long, they tell me to wait two minutes because they will do it when they get to it. It is so frustrating.  And, no matter what I say, it is wrong. To anyone.  Ever.  Anyway, David did not like it. I hope I can go back.  (Sigh) This is the result.

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On the way home, I got my blood test results at Labazur.  Afterwards, I was hungry.  I needed lunch, but it was after 3:00 p.m.  Lots of luck finding a good place to eat at that time of day.  I was across the street from my favorite 21 Paysans.  https://www.21paysans.com/  I asked if I could still get a bite to eat. Yes. The chef fixed me a delicious something with goat cheese, ham, lettuce, tomato, multigrain bread, vinaigrette. Whatever. It was perfect. And, and a delicious hot tea with carrot cake. Yum.

Friday, I had a consultation with Dr. Blanc, went to my physical therapist (for my knee), and later, when I got home, found out I DON’T HAVE HEAT in my apartment. What?????  Talk about nondisclosure. My landlord said the furnace in the basement of the building is broken and cannot be repaired. So, he reduced my rent a tad and brought me electric heaters on Saturday. No comment. I would rather post pictures of flowers and fruit.  More than you ever wanted to know.  Peace.

Best, Jay

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YES “THE END OF THE BEGINNING”

Of late, Daddy has been on my mind, especially this week. Two reasons, in particular. First, I must decide where to hang my picture of him and a water color by his mother, Mary Dickson. Everything must go on the walls somewhere. Second, I ventured out into the world this week. I was invited and went to a luncheon/art project event, called “The Wisdom Cafe”, in Valbonne. 

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Let me explain: Sara Randall and Cy Todd, two friends from the American Club of the Riviera, have formed a group that meets twice a month in Valbonne – usually a luncheon event held at a restaurant, Les Pierres Rouges, with program of some sort.  However, this Thursday event was different.  Sara and Cy invited their artist friend, Laura McCollough from San Diego, California, to share her story and give the group an art lesson! First, we had a fun luncheon – interesting women with interesting stories from everywhere. Then, Laura and her daughter Rebecca led the group in a hands-on art project.  The assignment was to find a meaningful sentence or a phrase, choose a basic color (blue or grey acrylic / red and yellow water colors), and go with it. 

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I knew instantly my sentence “Rough Seas Make Good Sailors”.  (Daddy’s BYLINE!!  He drilled that into me ALL my life.)  I chose blue acrylic and went for gold, making a rough sea for a good sailor.  Haha.  Here is my result. No comment. 

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After I got home, I put my “artwork” on the book shelf and thought about Daddy. He loved inspirational phrases and sentences and books and pamphlets and pictures.  “Go to It!” “Be Kind to One Another”. “When the Going Gets Tough, the Tough Get Going!”  I had to read Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People” (ugh) before he would let me to go to Camp Dixie in Clayton, Georgia (which I LOVED).  People call him “gracious” and “a perfect gentlemen”. I thought of him as witty and a cut-up. Always telling a joke or three, laughing and having a good time.  He loved people; people loved him.  He could talk for hours to farmers, taking me with him to “visit”.  He also loved his Jack Daniels Black Label (a bottle always under the sink in the kitchen) and his Elks Club – especially the downstairs for members only (men) with card games and slot machines. 

Jack Daniels I still have a picture of him that I have had for ages. It is going on the wall somewhere. Don’t remember how I got it.  I just remember it hanging for years above the organ in the Music Room.  Daddy loved organ music. One day I came home from school to find an organ, sitting in the Music Room with my piano.  That is when I found out that Daddy like to pick out hymns on that organ. He didn’t know what he was doing, mind you, but that did not keep him from doing it.  Here, you get two for one – picture of Daddy and picture of me taking the picture.  

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The SteinwayI still have my grandmother’s painting. Daddy’s mother was Mary Tallulah Dickson – from Texas.  I don’t know how she got to Gainesville.  Just know she was an art teacher at Brenau College. Beautiful girl.

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Mother and Daddy had a water color of hers (Mary Dickson aka Mary Dickson Jewell aka Mary Jewell Loudermilk aka “Mama Loudermilk”).  They inherited it at some point. It  had hung at Mama and Papa Loudermilk’s house for years. It then moved to Aunt Mary and Uncle Joe’s house, along with Mama Loudermilk, when Papa Loudermilk died. Then Uncle Joe, Aunt Mary, and Mama Loudermilk all died. As a result, Uncle Beamus (Edgar Herman Jewell, Jr. aka Daddy’s brother) inherited that house and its “stuff”. After Uncle Beamus died (he had married Edith Lilly), he left a widow and a will, leaving Mary Dickson’s artwork to Mother and Daddy.  I just remember seeing that watercolor in the Music Room over the “whatnot shelf” (remember those) and loving it.  (Are you following all of this? There will be a test, later.)  All three of us (Patricia, Barbara, and I) wanted THAT watercolor. So, Mother made us draw straws. I WON!  When Mother died, I shipped that watercolor to California and got it re-framed.  

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The more I see it, the more impressed I am with Mary Dickson.  I would like to have known her better.  Look at the detail in this piece. So beautiful.

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I don’t have a lot of things. But, I still have Daddy’s Hamilton gold watch with Daddy’s initials on the back. He wore this wind-up watch for years. After he died, Mother gave it to me because she knew I coveted it. After I got to France, I had it repaired and wear it frequently.  I love it. 

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I still have Mary Dickson’s two spoons with her initials on them. “MTD”.

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I was named Tallulah after Mary Tallulah Dickson (aka Mama Loudermilk) and Mary Tallulah Jewell (Aunt Mary). So, when Aunt Mary died, she left me all the things that had “Tallulah” name or initials on them. I got some engraved silver and her mink pieces with her name on the lining.  The minks are long gone, but I still have some silverware.  I love using a spoon that I know Mary Dickson used.  Who gave it to her? What was her family of origin like? Why don’t we know more about her – where did she come from, who were her people.  No one ever talked about her that I can remember. Yet, she was the matriarch of the family, a leader before her time. 

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I have Daddy’s cuff links and tie clip.

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I have his chicken nutcracker. We always had a nut bowl in the kitchen for the pecans that fell off the tree in our side yard.  (Daddy loved pecans, not walnuts.)

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When I was growing up, Daddy would take me to the office (J. D. Jewell, Inc.) and ask his secretary, Mrs. Goforth, to teach me how to file things. Then, he would pay me for my work. I loved every minute of it. In his office behind his desk hung the painting in this photograph. Somewhere along the line, I acquired it.  I still love it.

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There have been a lot of articles about Daddy, but only one book that I know of, Homer Myers “Pass The Chicken Please, The Life and Times of Jesse Jewell”. It is quite good and accurate, as far as I know, regarding the Company and Barbara’s family and Patricia’s family. Not accurate about my family.  I don’t like that part.

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I have the book “Leaders in Georgia, In Education, In Business, and In the Arts”, published in 1955 by Curtis Printing Company, Inc. Daddy’s picture and profile are on page 57.

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Maybe more books will be written about him. I have begged my niece Debby aka Deb Prince Kroll, a wonderful writer, to write it, using all the articles she has in a box in her attic.  I may write one.  Mine would be from a subjective point of view. I want someone to write an extensive history of his story and the difficult times facing North Georgia after the Great Depression.  These people prevailed.  

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YES, these people prevailed.  So will we.  In the immortal words of Anna Eleanor Roosevelt that remain on my wall today:

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Best, Jay

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THE MOVE “MY FUNKY HIDEAWAY”

THE MOVE is over.  I am ensconced in my new digs. Somehow, it all fits. I call it “my funky hideaway”, making a concerted effort not to take my emotional temperature every ten minutes. A lot is good about it. The apartment is cozy; it has good energy; it has three closets (that is a lot for one bedroom apartments – don’t ask); the patio is huge (relatively speaking) with room for barbecue and plants; the piano fits; the Eurobox signal is strong; it is next to City Market; an Italian Deli is on the corner; “Andre” sells flowers/plants across the street; the tram is close by; my landlord speaks English (he is British); AND the Med is a few blocks away.  

I won’t list the bad.

Now, between you and me, living in a town is different from visiting. I am into my third year in France with reality checks around every corner. I am convinced that solving problems will keep me young.  Different neighborhoods, different everything – a different lifestyle than I’ve known before.  Each block has its own personality. This is how I have imagined it would be to live in NYC. I am learning which streets are safe and which are not. It is a process. Right now, I feel wiped out – August and September took their toll.

These pictures give you an idea of the “before”. I am still working on the “after”. Once thirty-three paintings are on the walls, I may call it “my funky art studio”. My “City Pad”. 

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THIS IS A PICTURE of Lacy – my porcelain treasure. I bought her at the Nice Monday market, browsing through antiques (and LOTS of junk).  She was a show stopper when I saw her. I wanted her immediately.  I like her face and her outlandish, velvet costume. My homage to theatre.  She reminds me of commedia dell’arte characters.  My love for theatre history.

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THESE ARE PICTURES of my New Neighborhoods.  Never a dull moment!!

 

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TIME MARCHES ON

Time Marches On.  Remember those news reels that were shown between screenings of the feature at the “picture show” back when? Along with the cartoon and previews? It was in a Time Marches On segment at the Royal Theatre on Main Street in Gainesville, Georgia, that I first saw the horrors of the concentration camps when I was a little girl. There was no television. People listened to the news on the radio. But, at the picture show, Time Marches On had pictures. I can still see the pictures in my mind’s eye of piles of bodies and bones. I can still feel my shock and difficulty believing what I was seeing. That memory is in my mind today. Not sure why.

Time Marches On. Time to go. Time to leave this apartment for the new. For the record, I have adored the condo I am leaving. It has been a good home for two years, one of them with the love of my life – Steve. Steve is gone. I am going on Monday. The condo has sold. I will miss the view of the Observatory and the hills of Nice.  I will miss the kitchen where Steve cooked a lot of pasta, meatballs, and “gravy”. I will miss the big tub in the bathroom where I would take long, hot baths. I will miss my office, Steve’s office, the uncomfortable sofa we both grew to love. I will miss our bed. Remember the musical I Do, I Do with Mary Martin singing, “This has been a very good bed….”.  

Time Marches On.

 

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Best, Jay

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“TITANIC” By Steve Orlandella

“TITANIC” is Steve Orlandella’s masterpiece. His love affair with those in peril on the sea that fateful night started when he was a young boy.  He saw every film made, read most books on the subject, and spent couple of years writing this book, obsessed with “The Convergence of the Twain.” He wanted “TITANIC” to be accurate, spending huge chunks of time doing research.  His approach is unique.  He covers people and events before, during, and after April 1912. His personality is intertwined throughout. “On your  behalf, I will be skeptical, factual, analytical, and when required cynical.” 

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“TITANIC” is a compelling read, for sale on www.amazon.com.

He writes:

“In the fall of 1960, I was a ten-year-old, growing up in Los Angeles’ San Fernando Valley.  Even then I was sarcastic, opinionated, and well on my way to becoming obnoxious.  The phrase most often used was, “A little too smart for his own good.”  Perhaps. Duplicit in all this were my parents, who spoiled me rotten.  One of my numerous privileges was permission to stay up late on Saturday night…very late.

Toward the end of the 1950s, television in Los Angeles was in a state of flux.  The Country’s number three [now number two] market had seven stations, a wealth of airtime and a dearth of programming.  The three network affiliates and the four independents turned to motion pictures to fill the void, so much so that one station, Channel 9, ran the same movie every night for a week.  Hey, I love Jimmy Cagney, but how many times can you watch “Yankee Doodle Dandy?”  The stations also had the nasty habit of cutting the films to pieces, the classic case being Channel 7, the ABC affiliate who filled their 3:30-5pm slots by slicing and dicing 2-hour movies down to 67 minutes. They came close to cutting Ingrid Bergman out of “Casablanca.”

Channel 2, the CBS Affiliate, had no such problem.  [They had “Lucy;” they had “Jackie Gleason.”]  “The Fabulous 52” was reserved for Saturday night at 11:30pm, and, since the only things that followed the movie were the National Anthem and a test pattern, they ran uncut.  The station held the rights to a package of relatively recent films from 20th Century Fox.  One Saturday afternoon my dad announced, “Titanic is on tonight.”  I had no idea who or what was “Titanic,” but we gathered in the family room at 11:30.  For the next two hours, I sat transfixed, mesmerized by what we were seeing.

If you are scoring at home, it was the 1953 version with Barbara Stanwyck, Clifton Webb and a young Robert Wagner.  They had me.

In 1964, I came across a copy of A Night to Remember, Walter Lord’s seminal work on the events of April 14-15, 1912, and the following year, saw the movie made [in England, 1958] from Lord’s book.  It was a film made by people who wanted to get it right.  This was the game changer.  The Fox movie opens with a page of text proclaiming that all the facts in the film were taken right from the United States Senate and British Board of Trade Inquiries.  “Really?”  Even then, Fox knew how to “play fast and loose with the truth.”  As good as their movie was, and it was good, it paled before the Brit’s film.  Fifteen hundred people did not all stand together, sing “Nearer My God To Thee,” and meekly sink into the North Atlantic.  They fought and struggled until their last breath, trying not to freeze or drown in the unforgiving sea.  Madeleine Astor wasn’t an elegant matron.  She was in fact, a pregnant teenager.  That was it, “Game On!”  I absorbed every book I could find, any TV program I could watch, and every newspaper on microfilm, along with help from the Titanic Historical Society.  Add that to my natural affinity for ships, and an obsession was born.  For some it’s The Civil War, for others it’s the Kennedy Assassination, for me it is The Royal Mail Steamship Titanic.

Part of the obsession stems from the fact that no event in history is so loaded with conjecture, myths, and downright lies as the wreck.  Some of which are “beauties.”  One example:  A young David Sarnoff [co-founder of RCA] became famous telling the world how he was the first to pick-up the Titanic’s distress call in the station on the roof of Wanamaker’s Department Store and how he remained at the key all Sunday night and well into the next day.  Great story?  Absolutely.  Truthful story?  Absolutely not.  Wanamaker’s was closed on Sunday, and even when the store was open, Sarnoff was the office manager.  Three other employees of The Marconi Company stood the watch.

Fox reloaded and fired again in 1997.  This time they tried it with a seemingly unlimited budget and an “amateur” historian calling the shots.  Movie making?  Unmatched.  Story telling?  Not so much.  History?  Nonexistent.  There is a word for what you wind up with when you invent the leading characters.  Fiction.  Now, nobody loves Kate Winslet “in flagrante delicto” more than I do, but the truth is better.  Thus, “Jack Dawson” and “Rose DeWitt” join “Julia Sturges” and “Lady Marjory Bellamy” as mythical creatures on a real ship.

And since you’re making stuff up, how about a little character assassination?  The 1997 film depicted First Officer William Murdoch taking but ultimately rejecting a bribe from make-believe villain “Caledon Hockley.”  Murdoch was also shown shooting two passengers dead after he presumed they intended to storm one of the remaining lifeboats.  He then salutes Chief Officer Henry Wilde and commits suicide with a revolver.  None of this ever happened.  After the picture’s director [name withheld] refused to take out the bogus scenes, studio executives flew to Murdoch’s hometown to issue his relatives an apology.  As for the movie, if you are looking for an accurate depiction of events – keep looking.  Put another way, there was a ship called Titanic, and it sank.  After that, you’re on your own.

The Civil War is far and away the all-time champion of most books. [One of Titanic’s passengers wrote “The Truth about Chickamauga.”]  Second?  The runner-up is World War II.  Third?  The correct guess is the Titanic.  So, what is my mission statement?  “What else?”  Write yet another book.  Now we tell her story, once again.  This time we come armed with all we knew and all we have learned in the wake of Doctor Robert Ballard’s stunning discovery of the wreck in 1985.  We will attempt to detail what is correct and dispel – whenever possible – at least some of what is not.

I spent my career working in television, the first seven years producing TV News.  What did I learn?  I learned skepticism, tinged with a bit of cynicism, and it has served me well.  So, I will do your bidding.  On your behalf, I will be skeptical, factual, analytical and when required, cynical.  There is one thing I cannot be, dispassionate.  I will stipulate to a love of all ships – but her most of all.  By now you may be asking yourself, “Why so many pictures?”  I confess that too is the TV producer in me.  You always try to put a face with a story, plus there is always the possibility that you can’t recognize Turbinia.

If I am standing at all, it is on the shoulders of some truly great authors.  I have read, re-read, and re-re-read their work over the years and have researched – borrowed – from them all.  To the best of my ability, everything in this book is true.  I believe in the concept that, if the Lord wanted us to remain silent, he wouldn’t have given us [brackets].  So, on occasion you’ll see a comment from yours truly.  [I’ll be that most irritating of shipmates, the loud, opinionated one.]

The longest section of the book concerns the area around the Boat Deck between midnight and 2:20am.  If it seems long [it’s real time] and overly detailed, I apologize, but to me this is the heart of the narrative.  Hundreds of little dramas, played out on a sloping deck in the middle of a freezing ocean.  Loved ones were torn apart, and families were destroyed.  And with it came the sub-plots.  Some got in lifeboats and some did not.  Some were allowed in the boats and some were not.  All of this begs the question: “Why?”  Regardless, these are their stories, and on their behalf, I will make no apologies.

I have tried to keep the technological parts under control, and not drown my readers in facts and figures – but the brains and skill that created the Olympic-class liners are very much a part of this story.

Allow me just a couple of more thoughts before we proceed.  There is one sentence that is common to virtually every book written about the RMS Titanic.  “It had been a mild winter in the Arctic.”

It had, indeed.  Ice that had been forming since well before the dawn of man was now at last free.  Unfettered, it could leave Greenland and move into the Labrador Current and begin its journey south toward the shipping lanes.  The ice was no different than previous years, only this year there would be more than usual – much more.  There were small pieces of ice, what sailors called “growlers.”  There were large sections, known as “sheet ice,” and larger still, “pack ice.”  In between were hundreds of what every seaman feared most, what the Norsemen referred to as “mountains of ice.”  Icebergs.

If you’re familiar with the advertising business, you probably know about the concepts of “marketing research” and “brand recognition.”  Countless studies have been commissioned to find out what people can identify and what they like.  The results are often quite surprising.  For example, inquiries have determined that far more people [around the world] can recognize the “Cavallino Rampante” [in English, “The Prancing Horse” aka the “Ferrari” logo] than can recognize “Shell” or “Coca-Cola.”  Then there is my favorite.  For decades focus groups, when asked to identify the most famous ship in the world, gave the traditional answer, Noah’s Ark.  No more.  The runaway number one is now the Titanic.  That’s “brand recognition.”

There is no way to tell the whole story in this little book, yet we will do our best.  Call me crazy [you wouldn’t be the first] and maybe a little arrogant [see previous], but I feel it’s my duty to help set the record straight for fifteen hundred souls who went to a cold, watery grave that night.  Time to depart.  “All ashore that’s goin’ ashore!”

Titantic“TITANIC” is a compelling read, for sale on www.amazon.com.

Best, Jay

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“THE GAME” By Steve Orlandella

This week has been a rough one.  But, that holds true most weeks these days. On the news, on Facebook, on Twitter, everybody rants, typing in all caps.  Give it a rest every now and then.  Watch a game of baseball.  That worked for my husband, Steve Orlandella.  He would get upset about whatever. But, he could breathe again once the Red Sox began to play.  That worked for Mother, too.  She watched Braves games on television as long as she could sit in a chair.  Once she became bedridden, she listened to games on a transistor radio until she died.  It worked for my grandmother, Mama Dorough. Her good friend growing up in Royston, Georgia, was Ty Cobb. They played catch together down the street.

Steve’s book about baseball – THE GAME – is excellent.  People who love baseball and who knew Steve and his knowledge of the game need to have this book on their bookshelves. It’s my favorite. I know how much he loved that game.  That love is pervasive throughout this book. 

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This is what he writes at the beginning:

“Most baseball fans can tell you the moment when they first fell for the game.  My lifetime love affair began when I was not quite six years old – at a very special place.

It all started on a cold, dreary day in the summer of 1985.  By then I had seen most of the historic landmarks and monuments in my town.  I had toured Paul Revere’s house, walked through Faneuil Hall, paced the deck of the USS Constitution and stood where the Minutemen made their stand – the hallowed ground of Lexington Green.  Heck, my grandmother lived in the shadow of the Old North Church.  There was only one place left.  Having seen all the shrines to American Independence, it was time to see the shrine to American Baseball.  “The Palazzo Yawkey.”  Fenway Park.

My father got tickets, and off we went to what was then 24 Jersey Street [now, 4 Yawkey Way].  The tickets were not a tough get.  The era of 900 straight sell-outs was twenty years away.  I remember like it was yesterday – walking through the tunnel, into the light, seeing that flawless field and the “monstrosity” in left.  They had me at ‘hello’.

It was a dreadful day.  Thunder, lightning, both games rain delayed, and the home team losing both ends of the doubleheader to “Jungle” Jim Rivera and the White Sox.  [Rivera, a family friend, had dinner at my grandparents’ house two months earlier.]  Halfway through the second game, my father asked me if I wanted to leave.  I refused.  Even then, I knew this was where I was supposed to be.

What did I learn that day?  First, hot dogs taste better at the ballpark.  Second, my father knew a lot about baseball.  And last but not least, I learned the name of the tall, thin fellow playing left field, Theodore Samuel Williams.  I can still recall my dad saying, “watch him, he’s the best.”  [When you are six years old, you believe your father knows everything.  In this case, he did.]  So, I watched, and on that day, I saw the sweetest swing I will ever see and the greatest hitter who ever lived.  [The Obsession was born.]

Fast-forward 28 years.  It was my first season producing and directing baseball.  After you have spent a season traveling with a ball club, you can take most of what you think you know about the game and chuck it out the window.  The whole thing is amazing.  The Ringling Brother’s Circus, packed aboard a chartered jet instead of a private train.  Hitting streaks and batting slumps, shut outs and blow outs, late buses and later luggage, knuckle balls and fast balls, hotel bars and [on occasion] Gentlemen Clubs, RBI’s and ACL’s, double plays and double steals, kids chasing autographs, and women just chasing, San Francisco on Wednesday and New York on Thursday, past balls and wild pitches, Scully and Torre, Jaime and Pepe, breakfast at 5am, dinner at midnight, and the cities. Walking down to the Ohio River in Cincinnati, or over from the excellent light rail in St. Louis.  “Baseball spoken here.”  The wonderful Herald columnist Mel Durslag said it best, “In the summer, when the weather is right, it all sings.”

He was talking about Fenway, but it also plays at Safeco and Wrigley.  My sister worked her way through college at the Union Oyster House in Boston.  She observed when “the Sox were in first place, the customers left bigger tips.”  (Obsession enhanced)

So, this is our game, and it belongs to all of us.  I think about my high school pal Joe Klinger, five hundred miles from Chavez Ravine and his beloved “Bums.”  My friend Cathy Karp, enduring being two thousand miles from Wrigley Field and her “Cubbies.”  Joe Buttitta, who lives twenty-five hundred miles away from 161st & River Avenue, and his [Damn] Yankees.  I think about myself, three thousand miles from the “Jewel in the Crown” that sits at 4 Yawkey Way.  And about my dear wife, preparing for another season of “sturm und drang,” secure in the knowledge that, in this whole wide world, her only rivals are 25 guys in white cotton and grey polyester.  The Washington Post’s Thomas Boswell titled his magnum opus on the game, “Why time begins on opening day.”  Well, Boswell had it right.  It does indeed.  Hope may not spring eternal, but eternal hope arrives every spring.  If you haven’t guessed, I am a Red Sox fan.  I was destined to play center field in Fenway Park, but as the result of some horrific pre-natal mistake, I got Fred Lynn’s body and he got mine.  That said, I shall try to retain my objectivity and treat the teams and players fairly, even [may God help me] the Yankees.  As the man not in uniform [the umpire] would, say “Play Ball!”

“I see great things in baseball,

It will take our people out-of-doors,

fill them with oxygen,

give them a larger physical stoicism,

tend to relieve us from being

a nervous, dyspeptic set,

repair those losses

and be a blessing to us.”

          –  Walt Whitman

THE GAME is all baseball. It includes stories, essays, jokes, history, and more as seen through the eyes of a man who spent his entire career in sports television. In 1993, he became Producer for Dodgers Baseball for nine seasons. He won Golden Mikes, Associated Press Awards, and two Emmy’s. He cared passionately about the Red Sox, Fenway Park, and baseball. Few writers have captured the essence of the game better than Steve Orlandella.

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