DODGER BASEBALL AND STEVE ORLANDELLA

How ’bout them Dodgers!! YES!  Here’s to the Dodgers! MY baseball team. OUR baseball team. Win or lose, Dodger Blue forever!!  OK, we all know that Steve was a member of the Red Sox Nation, but he had a LOT of room in his heart for the Dodgers.  Joe Quasarano, “Vinny” Scully, Elaina Habeeb Fote, Don Drysdale, …. Love and respect.

The Dodgers were central to our lives. We met at Dodger Stadium. It was a Tuesday afternoon – June 29, 1993. I was making a KTLA televised presentation to Oral Hershiser on behalf of Very Special Arts California. Steve was supposed to shoot it. At the same time, he was shooting a special about the players’ wives. Somehow, he had to “work my shoot in”. He made me wait, and wait, and wait, and…. I got furious, told him off, and the rest is history.

He excelled at what he did.  Witness – his Emmy, which says:

“1993 LOS ANGELES AREA EMMY AWARDS

SPORTS SERIES

LOS ANGELES DODGERS: PRE-GAME

Steve Orlandella, Producer

KTLA”

Dodger 7

And, another Emmy, which says:

“1997 LOS ANGELES EMMY AWARDS

SPORTS SPECIAL

HERE’S TO YOU, MR. ROBINSON

STEVE ORLANDELLA, Producer

KTLA”

Dodgers 9

Steve loved the game. Always did.

Dodgers 14

He loved stadiums, sound trucks, crews, Vin Scully, travelling from city to city, going to games, producing the games, the camaraderie.  All of it.  He subscribed to baseball channels in the U.S. and in France and on the Internet.  He had baseball games on television or on his computer, both going at all hours of the day and night. He couldn’t get enough. And, today, he would love watching this world series, no matter what he had to do to see it.

So, here’s to the Dodgers, here’s to the World Series, here’ to Steve, and here’s to Steve’s gift to all of us, THE GAME.  Get his book. Put it on your bookshelf.  It contains his love of the game, his flaws, his knowledge, his trivia, his personality, his wry comments, all there, written in his unique style.  

The Game

Customer reviews

5.0 out of 5 stars

Top customer reviews:

 

on December 11, 2014
Format: Paperback
If you love or just like baseball, this is a must read.  Steve’s language is wonderful and the pages turn by themselves.  I sat down to glance at the book, and didn’t put it down until I had read all of it.  Extra special for the Dodger fans in the world.  Don’t miss the chance to feel as if you too were there.
Dodger 4
Dodger8
When Steve was in the hospital, Vin Scully aired live at Dodger Game a message to Steve, that everyone was pulling for him.  During one of the few times that Steve was conscious, I played that clip for him – several times. It was one of the last times that I say him smile. 
Dodgers 12
I miss my guy.
Best, Jay
Dodgers Tag

A WEEK IN THE LIFE – COTE D’AZUR

I am very beezzy.  If you have anything you need me to do, the answer will be, “No, I’m too ‘beezzy’” (joke between Steve and me).  This past week, I attended to my health – my “medical catch-up” week.   Monday, I had my annual physical with Dr. Blanc and got a flu shot; Tuesday, I had a blood test at my neighborhood Labazur (laboratory); Wednesday, I got the flu; Thursday, I got the lab results; and Friday, I discussed my health with Dr. Blanc (as best I could in broken French (haha)), and got the news.  My stats are “very good”.  Vitamin D is down. (Well, duh, I am staying out of the sun because I don’t want the melanoma to return.) I must drink a vial of Vitamin D once a month for six months. OK.  Liquid sunshine.  Not that any of you care about my health, but I am glad to know that if I feel like a piece of you-know-what, get the flu from the flu shot, cry a lot, and complain, it is just my personality. Not my health.

Wait, there’s more.

Tuesday, my friends Slav and his wife Andrea helped me decorate the walls with art work!  Took three hours, but we did it! AND, It looks great, if I do say so myself.  It feels like home. (Just for the record, I hung the small ones.)  The large ones required drilling holes for special plugs in concrete. Slav knew just what to do.  Andrea helped. I watched and gave instructions. Haha. That is the way I do my best work.  Now, I have more art than walls – two are hanging outside. One is under an awning.  But, the other one is subject to the elements. Oh, well, if it gets ruined, it will be easier to throw away.  I know that is not the right attitude, but I have nowhere to store anything, and that picture is one of my least favorite. Yet, I cannot part with any of them. I love them all – even though I question our wisdom (Steve and mine), lugging all that art from California to France. (Sigh.)

Wednesday, I went to the Flower Market http://www.nicetourisme.com/nice/1396-marche-aux-fleurs-cours-saleya for photo-ops and realized I had the flu. I still took dozens of pictures for a week of photo-postings, then went home to recover from the flu. (Sigh.) Postings to follow.

Thursday, I got my hair cut and colored with blotchy streaks.  Just when I think I will let it grow longer because I feel more feminine when it is longer, or grow out to its natural color, I cut and color it. Happens like clockwork.  So, on Thursday, I went to my favorite salon. http://www.silvercoiffeur.com/  Christelle (sp?) is wonderful at color.  (I found her by asking a woman who works in Tanagra http://www.tanagra-nice.com/  – where I get my pedicures, who does her color.)  And, David Silver – the owner – cuts it.  I love them both. Only this week, I think I gave David too many instructions of what to do. Let’s face it, I never know what to say to a beautician. If I say too much, they take it personally. If I don’t say anything, I hate the haircut. If I say the blow dryer is too hot, they take it personally. If I say the bangs are too long, they tell me to wait two minutes because they will do it when they get to it. It is so frustrating.  And, no matter what I say, it is wrong. To anyone.  Ever.  Anyway, David did not like it. I hope I can go back.  (Sigh) This is the result.

IMG_1965

On the way home, I got my blood test results at Labazur.  Afterwards, I was hungry.  I needed lunch, but it was after 3:00 p.m.  Lots of luck finding a good place to eat at that time of day.  I was across the street from my favorite 21 Paysans.  https://www.21paysans.com/  I asked if I could still get a bite to eat. Yes. The chef fixed me a delicious something with goat cheese, ham, lettuce, tomato, multigrain bread, vinaigrette. Whatever. It was perfect. And, and a delicious hot tea with carrot cake. Yum.

Friday, I had a consultation with Dr. Blanc, went to my physical therapist (for my knee), and later, when I got home, found out I DON’T HAVE HEAT in my apartment. What?????  Talk about nondisclosure. My landlord said the furnace in the basement of the building is broken and cannot be repaired. So, he reduced my rent a tad and brought me electric heaters on Saturday. No comment. I would rather post pictures of flowers and fruit.  More than you ever wanted to know.  Peace.

Best, Jay

unnamed-1

 

 

 

YES “THE END OF THE BEGINNING”

Of late, Daddy has been on my mind, especially this week. Two reasons, in particular. First, I must decide where to hang my picture of him and a water color by his mother, Mary Dickson. Everything must go on the walls somewhere. Second, I ventured out into the world this week. I was invited and went to a luncheon/art project event, called “The Wisdom Cafe”, in Valbonne. 

22448489_10155803566084140_817685369990213239_n

Let me explain: Sara Randall and Cy Todd, two friends from the American Club of the Riviera, have formed a group that meets twice a month in Valbonne – usually a luncheon event held at a restaurant, Les Pierres Rouges, with program of some sort.  However, this Thursday event was different.  Sara and Cy invited their artist friend, Laura McCollough from San Diego, California, to share her story and give the group an art lesson! First, we had a fun luncheon – interesting women with interesting stories from everywhere. Then, Laura and her daughter Rebecca led the group in a hands-on art project.  The assignment was to find a meaningful sentence or a phrase, choose a basic color (blue or grey acrylic / red and yellow water colors), and go with it. 

Artist at work

I knew instantly my sentence “Rough Seas Make Good Sailors”.  (Daddy’s BYLINE!!  He drilled that into me ALL my life.)  I chose blue acrylic and went for gold, making a rough sea for a good sailor.  Haha.  Here is my result. No comment. 

22448489_10155803566079140_8005130470451116132_n

After I got home, I put my “artwork” on the book shelf and thought about Daddy. He loved inspirational phrases and sentences and books and pamphlets and pictures.  “Go to It!” “Be Kind to One Another”. “When the Going Gets Tough, the Tough Get Going!”  I had to read Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People” (ugh) before he would let me to go to Camp Dixie in Clayton, Georgia (which I LOVED).  People call him “gracious” and “a perfect gentlemen”. I thought of him as witty and a cut-up. Always telling a joke or three, laughing and having a good time.  He loved people; people loved him.  He could talk for hours to farmers, taking me with him to “visit”.  He also loved his Jack Daniels Black Label (a bottle always under the sink in the kitchen) and his Elks Club – especially the downstairs for members only (men) with card games and slot machines. 

Jack Daniels I still have a picture of him that I have had for ages. It is going on the wall somewhere. Don’t remember how I got it.  I just remember it hanging for years above the organ in the Music Room.  Daddy loved organ music. One day I came home from school to find an organ, sitting in the Music Room with my piano.  That is when I found out that Daddy like to pick out hymns on that organ. He didn’t know what he was doing, mind you, but that did not keep him from doing it.  Here, you get two for one – picture of Daddy and picture of me taking the picture.  

22538658_10155803566074140_7553236840690754905_o

22448489_10155803566059140_7335672894943739653_nAt that time, I was practicing the piano a lot, getting to be quite good. (Actually, I was competing with my sister Barbara and Janice Martin next door. I wanted to be as “technically proficient” as Mrs. Feldman said Barbara was. AND, Janice played by ear. Damn! HOW DID SHE DO THAT????? No, I had to practice and practice and practice. I wanted to show off in a private piano recital when I graduated from GHS (Gainesville High School). Plus, I had been accepted into the School of Music at the University of Wisconsin. My instrument was piano. I played Chopin’s Revolutionary Etude at my audition. I was also proud of my work with Martha Finger Stratton (my piano teacher), playing Mendelssohn Concerto for Two Pianos in E Major at my private recital.  I still have the Steinway Daddy bought me when I was twelve.  It is the elephant in the room.  I love it. When I look at it and play it every day, I feel the pride he had for me and my accomplishments, constantly urging me to do more and be better.

The SteinwayI still have my grandmother’s painting. Daddy’s mother was Mary Tallulah Dickson – from Texas.  I don’t know how she got to Gainesville.  Just know she was an art teacher at Brenau College. Beautiful girl.

22538658_10155803566094140_5906957073820017727_o

Mother and Daddy had a water color of hers (Mary Dickson aka Mary Dickson Jewell aka Mary Jewell Loudermilk aka “Mama Loudermilk”).  They inherited it at some point. It  had hung at Mama and Papa Loudermilk’s house for years. It then moved to Aunt Mary and Uncle Joe’s house, along with Mama Loudermilk, when Papa Loudermilk died. Then Uncle Joe, Aunt Mary, and Mama Loudermilk all died. As a result, Uncle Beamus (Edgar Herman Jewell, Jr. aka Daddy’s brother) inherited that house and its “stuff”. After Uncle Beamus died (he had married Edith Lilly), he left a widow and a will, leaving Mary Dickson’s artwork to Mother and Daddy.  I just remember seeing that watercolor in the Music Room over the “whatnot shelf” (remember those) and loving it.  (Are you following all of this? There will be a test, later.)  All three of us (Patricia, Barbara, and I) wanted THAT watercolor. So, Mother made us draw straws. I WON!  When Mother died, I shipped that watercolor to California and got it re-framed.  

Dickson watercolor

The more I see it, the more impressed I am with Mary Dickson.  I would like to have known her better.  Look at the detail in this piece. So beautiful.

Closeup Dickson watercolor

I don’t have a lot of things. But, I still have Daddy’s Hamilton gold watch with Daddy’s initials on the back. He wore this wind-up watch for years. After he died, Mother gave it to me because she knew I coveted it. After I got to France, I had it repaired and wear it frequently.  I love it. 

Daddy watchEngraving on the back.

Watch engraving

I still have Mary Dickson’s two spoons with her initials on them. “MTD”.

Two Spoons

I was named Tallulah after Mary Tallulah Dickson (aka Mama Loudermilk) and Mary Tallulah Jewell (Aunt Mary). So, when Aunt Mary died, she left me all the things that had “Tallulah” name or initials on them. I got some engraved silver and her mink pieces with her name on the lining.  The minks are long gone, but I still have some silverware.  I love using a spoon that I know Mary Dickson used.  Who gave it to her? What was her family of origin like? Why don’t we know more about her – where did she come from, who were her people.  No one ever talked about her that I can remember. Yet, she was the matriarch of the family, a leader before her time. 

22448489_10155803566069140_2927091473047846083_n

I have Daddy’s cuff links and tie clip.

Cuff links & tie clip

I have his chicken nutcracker. We always had a nut bowl in the kitchen for the pecans that fell off the tree in our side yard.  (Daddy loved pecans, not walnuts.)

Rooster Nut Cracker

When I was growing up, Daddy would take me to the office (J. D. Jewell, Inc.) and ask his secretary, Mrs. Goforth, to teach me how to file things. Then, he would pay me for my work. I loved every minute of it. In his office behind his desk hung the painting in this photograph. Somewhere along the line, I acquired it.  I still love it.

Jewell Office Pheasant

There have been a lot of articles about Daddy, but only one book that I know of, Homer Myers “Pass The Chicken Please, The Life and Times of Jesse Jewell”. It is quite good and accurate, as far as I know, regarding the Company and Barbara’s family and Patricia’s family. Not accurate about my family.  I don’t like that part.

IMG_9506

I have the book “Leaders in Georgia, In Education, In Business, and In the Arts”, published in 1955 by Curtis Printing Company, Inc. Daddy’s picture and profile are on page 57.

IMG_9502IMG_9503

Maybe more books will be written about him. I have begged my niece Debby aka Deb Prince Kroll, a wonderful writer, to write it, using all the articles she has in a box in her attic.  I may write one.  Mine would be from a subjective point of view. I want someone to write an extensive history of his story and the difficult times facing North Georgia after the Great Depression.  These people prevailed.  

JDJewell End of Begining

IMG_9522IMG_9524 

YES, these people prevailed.  So will we.  In the immortal words of Anna Eleanor Roosevelt that remain on my wall today:

Eleanor Roosefelt quote

Best, Jay

JayM1_1932 good

 

THE MOVE “MY FUNKY HIDEAWAY”

THE MOVE is over.  I am ensconced in my new digs. Somehow, it all fits. I call it “my funky hideaway”, making a concerted effort not to take my emotional temperature every ten minutes. A lot is good about it. The apartment is cozy; it has good energy; it has three closets (that is a lot for one bedroom apartments – don’t ask); the patio is huge (relatively speaking) with room for barbecue and plants; the piano fits; the Eurobox signal is strong; it is next to City Market; an Italian Deli is on the corner; “Andre” sells flowers/plants across the street; the tram is close by; my landlord speaks English (he is British); AND the Med is a few blocks away.  

I won’t list the bad.

Now, between you and me, living in a town is different from visiting. I am into my third year in France with reality checks around every corner. I am convinced that solving problems will keep me young.  Different neighborhoods, different everything – a different lifestyle than I’ve known before.  Each block has its own personality. This is how I have imagined it would be to live in NYC. I am learning which streets are safe and which are not. It is a process. Right now, I feel wiped out – August and September took their toll.

These pictures give you an idea of the “before”. I am still working on the “after”. Once thirty-three paintings are on the walls, I may call it “my funky art studio”. My “City Pad”. 

funky8funky5funky11Funky-1Funky2funky3funky4

THIS IS A PICTURE of Lacy – my porcelain treasure. I bought her at the Nice Monday market, browsing through antiques (and LOTS of junk).  She was a show stopper when I saw her. I wanted her immediately.  I like her face and her outlandish, velvet costume. My homage to theatre.  She reminds me of commedia dell’arte characters.  My love for theatre history.

unnamed

THESE ARE PICTURES of my New Neighborhoods.  Never a dull moment!!

 

lfunky20funky19funky15funky16funky18funky7funky6funky10

Best, Jay

unnamed

TIME MARCHES ON

Time Marches On.  Remember those news reels that were shown between screenings of the feature at the “picture show” back when? Along with the cartoon and previews? It was in a Time Marches On segment at the Royal Theatre on Main Street in Gainesville, Georgia, that I first saw the horrors of the concentration camps when I was a little girl. There was no television. People listened to the news on the radio. But, at the picture show, Time Marches On had pictures. I can still see the pictures in my mind’s eye of piles of bodies and bones. I can still feel my shock and difficulty believing what I was seeing. That memory is in my mind today. Not sure why.

Time Marches On. Time to go. Time to leave this apartment for the new. For the record, I have adored the condo I am leaving. It has been a good home for two years, one of them with the love of my life – Steve. Steve is gone. I am going on Monday. The condo has sold. I will miss the view of the Observatory and the hills of Nice.  I will miss the kitchen where Steve cooked a lot of pasta, meatballs, and “gravy”. I will miss the big tub in the bathroom where I would take long, hot baths. I will miss my office, Steve’s office, the uncomfortable sofa we both grew to love. I will miss our bed. Remember the musical I Do, I Do with Mary Martin singing, “This has been a very good bed….”.  

Time Marches On.

 

IMG_2989

 

Best, Jay

13626435_10154363936434140_4757698328878220134_n

“TITANIC” By Steve Orlandella

“TITANIC” is Steve Orlandella’s masterpiece. His love affair with those in peril on the sea that fateful night started when he was a young boy.  He saw every film made, read most books on the subject, and spent couple of years writing this book, obsessed with “The Convergence of the Twain.” He wanted “TITANIC” to be accurate, spending huge chunks of time doing research.  His approach is unique.  He covers people and events before, during, and after April 1912. His personality is intertwined throughout. “On your  behalf, I will be skeptical, factual, analytical, and when required cynical.” 

13415609_10154229352474140_8434651904322074292_o

“TITANIC” is a compelling read, for sale on www.amazon.com.

He writes:

“In the fall of 1960, I was a ten-year-old, growing up in Los Angeles’ San Fernando Valley.  Even then I was sarcastic, opinionated, and well on my way to becoming obnoxious.  The phrase most often used was, “A little too smart for his own good.”  Perhaps. Duplicit in all this were my parents, who spoiled me rotten.  One of my numerous privileges was permission to stay up late on Saturday night…very late.

Toward the end of the 1950s, television in Los Angeles was in a state of flux.  The Country’s number three [now number two] market had seven stations, a wealth of airtime and a dearth of programming.  The three network affiliates and the four independents turned to motion pictures to fill the void, so much so that one station, Channel 9, ran the same movie every night for a week.  Hey, I love Jimmy Cagney, but how many times can you watch “Yankee Doodle Dandy?”  The stations also had the nasty habit of cutting the films to pieces, the classic case being Channel 7, the ABC affiliate who filled their 3:30-5pm slots by slicing and dicing 2-hour movies down to 67 minutes. They came close to cutting Ingrid Bergman out of “Casablanca.”

Channel 2, the CBS Affiliate, had no such problem.  [They had “Lucy;” they had “Jackie Gleason.”]  “The Fabulous 52” was reserved for Saturday night at 11:30pm, and, since the only things that followed the movie were the National Anthem and a test pattern, they ran uncut.  The station held the rights to a package of relatively recent films from 20th Century Fox.  One Saturday afternoon my dad announced, “Titanic is on tonight.”  I had no idea who or what was “Titanic,” but we gathered in the family room at 11:30.  For the next two hours, I sat transfixed, mesmerized by what we were seeing.

If you are scoring at home, it was the 1953 version with Barbara Stanwyck, Clifton Webb and a young Robert Wagner.  They had me.

In 1964, I came across a copy of A Night to Remember, Walter Lord’s seminal work on the events of April 14-15, 1912, and the following year, saw the movie made [in England, 1958] from Lord’s book.  It was a film made by people who wanted to get it right.  This was the game changer.  The Fox movie opens with a page of text proclaiming that all the facts in the film were taken right from the United States Senate and British Board of Trade Inquiries.  “Really?”  Even then, Fox knew how to “play fast and loose with the truth.”  As good as their movie was, and it was good, it paled before the Brit’s film.  Fifteen hundred people did not all stand together, sing “Nearer My God To Thee,” and meekly sink into the North Atlantic.  They fought and struggled until their last breath, trying not to freeze or drown in the unforgiving sea.  Madeleine Astor wasn’t an elegant matron.  She was in fact, a pregnant teenager.  That was it, “Game On!”  I absorbed every book I could find, any TV program I could watch, and every newspaper on microfilm, along with help from the Titanic Historical Society.  Add that to my natural affinity for ships, and an obsession was born.  For some it’s The Civil War, for others it’s the Kennedy Assassination, for me it is The Royal Mail Steamship Titanic.

Part of the obsession stems from the fact that no event in history is so loaded with conjecture, myths, and downright lies as the wreck.  Some of which are “beauties.”  One example:  A young David Sarnoff [co-founder of RCA] became famous telling the world how he was the first to pick-up the Titanic’s distress call in the station on the roof of Wanamaker’s Department Store and how he remained at the key all Sunday night and well into the next day.  Great story?  Absolutely.  Truthful story?  Absolutely not.  Wanamaker’s was closed on Sunday, and even when the store was open, Sarnoff was the office manager.  Three other employees of The Marconi Company stood the watch.

Fox reloaded and fired again in 1997.  This time they tried it with a seemingly unlimited budget and an “amateur” historian calling the shots.  Movie making?  Unmatched.  Story telling?  Not so much.  History?  Nonexistent.  There is a word for what you wind up with when you invent the leading characters.  Fiction.  Now, nobody loves Kate Winslet “in flagrante delicto” more than I do, but the truth is better.  Thus, “Jack Dawson” and “Rose DeWitt” join “Julia Sturges” and “Lady Marjory Bellamy” as mythical creatures on a real ship.

And since you’re making stuff up, how about a little character assassination?  The 1997 film depicted First Officer William Murdoch taking but ultimately rejecting a bribe from make-believe villain “Caledon Hockley.”  Murdoch was also shown shooting two passengers dead after he presumed they intended to storm one of the remaining lifeboats.  He then salutes Chief Officer Henry Wilde and commits suicide with a revolver.  None of this ever happened.  After the picture’s director [name withheld] refused to take out the bogus scenes, studio executives flew to Murdoch’s hometown to issue his relatives an apology.  As for the movie, if you are looking for an accurate depiction of events – keep looking.  Put another way, there was a ship called Titanic, and it sank.  After that, you’re on your own.

The Civil War is far and away the all-time champion of most books. [One of Titanic’s passengers wrote “The Truth about Chickamauga.”]  Second?  The runner-up is World War II.  Third?  The correct guess is the Titanic.  So, what is my mission statement?  “What else?”  Write yet another book.  Now we tell her story, once again.  This time we come armed with all we knew and all we have learned in the wake of Doctor Robert Ballard’s stunning discovery of the wreck in 1985.  We will attempt to detail what is correct and dispel – whenever possible – at least some of what is not.

I spent my career working in television, the first seven years producing TV News.  What did I learn?  I learned skepticism, tinged with a bit of cynicism, and it has served me well.  So, I will do your bidding.  On your behalf, I will be skeptical, factual, analytical and when required, cynical.  There is one thing I cannot be, dispassionate.  I will stipulate to a love of all ships – but her most of all.  By now you may be asking yourself, “Why so many pictures?”  I confess that too is the TV producer in me.  You always try to put a face with a story, plus there is always the possibility that you can’t recognize Turbinia.

If I am standing at all, it is on the shoulders of some truly great authors.  I have read, re-read, and re-re-read their work over the years and have researched – borrowed – from them all.  To the best of my ability, everything in this book is true.  I believe in the concept that, if the Lord wanted us to remain silent, he wouldn’t have given us [brackets].  So, on occasion you’ll see a comment from yours truly.  [I’ll be that most irritating of shipmates, the loud, opinionated one.]

The longest section of the book concerns the area around the Boat Deck between midnight and 2:20am.  If it seems long [it’s real time] and overly detailed, I apologize, but to me this is the heart of the narrative.  Hundreds of little dramas, played out on a sloping deck in the middle of a freezing ocean.  Loved ones were torn apart, and families were destroyed.  And with it came the sub-plots.  Some got in lifeboats and some did not.  Some were allowed in the boats and some were not.  All of this begs the question: “Why?”  Regardless, these are their stories, and on their behalf, I will make no apologies.

I have tried to keep the technological parts under control, and not drown my readers in facts and figures – but the brains and skill that created the Olympic-class liners are very much a part of this story.

Allow me just a couple of more thoughts before we proceed.  There is one sentence that is common to virtually every book written about the RMS Titanic.  “It had been a mild winter in the Arctic.”

It had, indeed.  Ice that had been forming since well before the dawn of man was now at last free.  Unfettered, it could leave Greenland and move into the Labrador Current and begin its journey south toward the shipping lanes.  The ice was no different than previous years, only this year there would be more than usual – much more.  There were small pieces of ice, what sailors called “growlers.”  There were large sections, known as “sheet ice,” and larger still, “pack ice.”  In between were hundreds of what every seaman feared most, what the Norsemen referred to as “mountains of ice.”  Icebergs.

If you’re familiar with the advertising business, you probably know about the concepts of “marketing research” and “brand recognition.”  Countless studies have been commissioned to find out what people can identify and what they like.  The results are often quite surprising.  For example, inquiries have determined that far more people [around the world] can recognize the “Cavallino Rampante” [in English, “The Prancing Horse” aka the “Ferrari” logo] than can recognize “Shell” or “Coca-Cola.”  Then there is my favorite.  For decades focus groups, when asked to identify the most famous ship in the world, gave the traditional answer, Noah’s Ark.  No more.  The runaway number one is now the Titanic.  That’s “brand recognition.”

There is no way to tell the whole story in this little book, yet we will do our best.  Call me crazy [you wouldn’t be the first] and maybe a little arrogant [see previous], but I feel it’s my duty to help set the record straight for fifteen hundred souls who went to a cold, watery grave that night.  Time to depart.  “All ashore that’s goin’ ashore!”

Titantic“TITANIC” is a compelling read, for sale on www.amazon.com.

Best, Jay

JayM1_1935

“THE GAME” By Steve Orlandella

This week has been a rough one.  But, that holds true most weeks these days. On the news, on Facebook, on Twitter, everybody rants, typing in all caps.  Give it a rest every now and then.  Watch a game of baseball.  That worked for my husband, Steve Orlandella.  He would get upset about whatever. But, he could breathe again once the Red Sox began to play.  That worked for Mother, too.  She watched Braves games on television as long as she could sit in a chair.  Once she became bedridden, she listened to games on a transistor radio until she died.  It worked for my grandmother, Mama Dorough. Her good friend growing up in Royston, Georgia, was Ty Cobb. They played catch together down the street.

Steve’s book about baseball – THE GAME – is excellent.  People who love baseball and who knew Steve and his knowledge of the game need to have this book on their bookshelves. It’s my favorite. I know how much he loved that game.  That love is pervasive throughout this book. 

The Game

This is what he writes at the beginning:

“Most baseball fans can tell you the moment when they first fell for the game.  My lifetime love affair began when I was not quite six years old – at a very special place.

It all started on a cold, dreary day in the summer of 1985.  By then I had seen most of the historic landmarks and monuments in my town.  I had toured Paul Revere’s house, walked through Faneuil Hall, paced the deck of the USS Constitution and stood where the Minutemen made their stand – the hallowed ground of Lexington Green.  Heck, my grandmother lived in the shadow of the Old North Church.  There was only one place left.  Having seen all the shrines to American Independence, it was time to see the shrine to American Baseball.  “The Palazzo Yawkey.”  Fenway Park.

My father got tickets, and off we went to what was then 24 Jersey Street [now, 4 Yawkey Way].  The tickets were not a tough get.  The era of 900 straight sell-outs was twenty years away.  I remember like it was yesterday – walking through the tunnel, into the light, seeing that flawless field and the “monstrosity” in left.  They had me at ‘hello’.

It was a dreadful day.  Thunder, lightning, both games rain delayed, and the home team losing both ends of the doubleheader to “Jungle” Jim Rivera and the White Sox.  [Rivera, a family friend, had dinner at my grandparents’ house two months earlier.]  Halfway through the second game, my father asked me if I wanted to leave.  I refused.  Even then, I knew this was where I was supposed to be.

What did I learn that day?  First, hot dogs taste better at the ballpark.  Second, my father knew a lot about baseball.  And last but not least, I learned the name of the tall, thin fellow playing left field, Theodore Samuel Williams.  I can still recall my dad saying, “watch him, he’s the best.”  [When you are six years old, you believe your father knows everything.  In this case, he did.]  So, I watched, and on that day, I saw the sweetest swing I will ever see and the greatest hitter who ever lived.  [The Obsession was born.]

Fast-forward 28 years.  It was my first season producing and directing baseball.  After you have spent a season traveling with a ball club, you can take most of what you think you know about the game and chuck it out the window.  The whole thing is amazing.  The Ringling Brother’s Circus, packed aboard a chartered jet instead of a private train.  Hitting streaks and batting slumps, shut outs and blow outs, late buses and later luggage, knuckle balls and fast balls, hotel bars and [on occasion] Gentlemen Clubs, RBI’s and ACL’s, double plays and double steals, kids chasing autographs, and women just chasing, San Francisco on Wednesday and New York on Thursday, past balls and wild pitches, Scully and Torre, Jaime and Pepe, breakfast at 5am, dinner at midnight, and the cities. Walking down to the Ohio River in Cincinnati, or over from the excellent light rail in St. Louis.  “Baseball spoken here.”  The wonderful Herald columnist Mel Durslag said it best, “In the summer, when the weather is right, it all sings.”

He was talking about Fenway, but it also plays at Safeco and Wrigley.  My sister worked her way through college at the Union Oyster House in Boston.  She observed when “the Sox were in first place, the customers left bigger tips.”  (Obsession enhanced)

So, this is our game, and it belongs to all of us.  I think about my high school pal Joe Klinger, five hundred miles from Chavez Ravine and his beloved “Bums.”  My friend Cathy Karp, enduring being two thousand miles from Wrigley Field and her “Cubbies.”  Joe Buttitta, who lives twenty-five hundred miles away from 161st & River Avenue, and his [Damn] Yankees.  I think about myself, three thousand miles from the “Jewel in the Crown” that sits at 4 Yawkey Way.  And about my dear wife, preparing for another season of “sturm und drang,” secure in the knowledge that, in this whole wide world, her only rivals are 25 guys in white cotton and grey polyester.  The Washington Post’s Thomas Boswell titled his magnum opus on the game, “Why time begins on opening day.”  Well, Boswell had it right.  It does indeed.  Hope may not spring eternal, but eternal hope arrives every spring.  If you haven’t guessed, I am a Red Sox fan.  I was destined to play center field in Fenway Park, but as the result of some horrific pre-natal mistake, I got Fred Lynn’s body and he got mine.  That said, I shall try to retain my objectivity and treat the teams and players fairly, even [may God help me] the Yankees.  As the man not in uniform [the umpire] would, say “Play Ball!”

“I see great things in baseball,

It will take our people out-of-doors,

fill them with oxygen,

give them a larger physical stoicism,

tend to relieve us from being

a nervous, dyspeptic set,

repair those losses

and be a blessing to us.”

          –  Walt Whitman

THE GAME is all baseball. It includes stories, essays, jokes, history, and more as seen through the eyes of a man who spent his entire career in sports television. In 1993, he became Producer for Dodgers Baseball for nine seasons. He won Golden Mikes, Associated Press Awards, and two Emmy’s. He cared passionately about the Red Sox, Fenway Park, and baseball. Few writers have captured the essence of the game better than Steve Orlandella.

Steve&VinScully

 

Dodger8

 

Dodger 4

Dodgers 9

Dodgers 14

Best, Jay

unnamed

NEW RELEASE: “JAYSPEAK ON THE COTE D’AZUR”

This book is dedicated to Steve.  We dreamed this dream together. Then, made eleven months of it a reality.  It is also dedicated to Andrea and Kate and the people who encouraged me to keep writing – Adria and Judi, are you listening? It never would have happened without all of you.  It started like this:

In Spring of 2016, I had lunch with two of my girlfriends, Andrea Emond and Kate Gale, at a restaurant on Victor Hugo, called Volupté Anytime.  We gabbed about everything for two hours or so. I talked about my writings and those of my husband’s – Steve Orlandella.  Steve was getting ready to publish his fifth Vic Landell Mystery, “Midtown Mayhem”. I was working on “Journal of Janet Tallulah, Volume 3”.

We talked about marketing books. I expressed frustration with the process and asked for ideas.  Andrea suggested we each write a blog – to get our names out there. She had read one of Steve’s mysteries and enjoyed it.  At present, she was in the middle of “Janet Tallulah” and loving it.  

Janet Tallulah cover2

Kate agreed.  She knew people who made big money with blogs. What???  How? Advertisers pay to advertise on a blog – IF a blogger has enough followers of 50,000 or so. WHAT??? 50,000? What the hell could anyone write about that would interest 50,000 + people? After a good laugh, we all settled into brainstorming ideas for creating this hypothetical “blog”.

Later, when I got home, I discussed blogs with Steve.  I suggested we both begin a blog. He liked the idea. He decided to call his “Stevespeak”, after the title of his first book “Stevespeak: Three Years on Facebook” 

Stevespeak

I asked him if he minded I call mine “Jayspeak”. Not at all. He thought that would be fun.

On June 30, 2016, Steve published “Midtown Mayhem”.

On July 31, 2017, Steve published his first post on Stevespeak, and I published my first posts for Jayspeak.  He wrote:

OVERTURE – My name is Steve Orlandella and I continue to be dragged, kicking and screaming, into the 21st Century.  It’s time for me to have what most twelve-year-olds have – a blog.

To tell this story we must go back in time.  It was six years ago, after a career in television, that I closed my little cottage industry – Steve Orlandella Productions – and essentially retired.  My wife aka the energizer bunny was still busy lawyering.  She was asked by the Writer’s Guild to be counsel at a seminar they were holding on self-publishing.  She came home that night, walked in the door and said, “You need to write a book.”  My reply was one for the ages, “I don’t have anything to say.”  The best way to describe the look on my wife’s face was incredulous.  Why?  She knew that I have something – and usually a lot – to say about everything.  From the fruit fly to the search for intelligent life in the universe – no subject too big, too small, too current, too arcane.

The name of this blog is taken from the name of my first book – Stevespeak. This was followed by a book on the Titanic and a book about baseball.  It was about this time I got sick of writing about other people – I wanted to write about my own characters.  So, I turned to fiction.  As most writers will tell you, fiction is better.  Thus was born my baseball player turned private investigator and his way-over-the-top girlfriend.  I thought it would make for a good book.  In my humble opinion, it’s made five – with a sixth in the shipyard.

So, now, with whatever brain cells and synapses I have left, I’m going to take my shot at being a blogger. I will concentrate on the things I am passionate about.  I’m Italian, which means I’m passionate about everything.  History, science, politics, planes, trains, automobiles, baseball, books, films, and too many more to list.

I invite you to participate.  Our forbearers gave us all a little darling known as the First Amendment to the Constitution.  I believe in it and I have its back.  You are free to post whatever you like.  This comes with a proviso.  Let me channel Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes, “You can’t yell fire in a crowded theatre.”  In other words, there are limits.  Do you advocate the overthrow of my government through force or violence?  Believe that Sharia Law should replace the Constitution?  That we must abolish the Bill of Rights.  That Hitler was mis-understood?  That Isis is inherently good?  If yes to any of the above, don’t bother.  For the rest of you, I hope you enjoy it.”

I wrote “Jayspeak Begins”:

“JAYSPEAK BEGINS…. On October 1, 2015, my husband and I moved to Nice, France. We are currently beginning our 11th month – as residents. It is tricky because we don’t either one speak French. We try to, but — no. A word here and there, but full sentences throw us for a loop. Yet, we have been able to make ourselves understood – by waiters in restaurants, UPS at the door, the mailman, the Post Office, the grocery clerk, the pharmacist, the doctor, the dentist. A lot of these people speak “some” English, but not much. I bought Michel Thomas’ French apps, and listened for months to the lessons. That helped. My problem comes with pronunciation. Mine and theirs. I say something I think is excellent, and they look puzzled. If they say something, I have no idea what it might be. Yet, I can translate it. I can read a lot of things; I am struggling with speech. I had hoped to pick it up faster — no.

We moved to France as a compromise. We had been living in Los Angeles, California, for many years. I had moved there in 1968, from Gainesville, Georgia. While there, I worked as an actress in film and television – selling real estate as backup. At a certain point, I got frustrated with acting and decided to go to law school. I practiced law for fifteen years and decided to retire. I married my husband Steve Orlandella – a live sports producer for television – in 2005. We had dated for several years, and he popped the question that spring. In 2014, we decided to retire. He hated the traffic, and I had battle-fatigue from contentious clients and defense attorneys. Steve wanted to move to Sarasota, Florida. I wanted to stay in L.A. We compromised by agreeing to move to Nice, France. It did not happen quite that easily, but all of that drama and saga I will save for another time.

It took us two years to “get our ducks in a row.” Steve applied for an Italian passport so he could have duel-citizenship. I required a long-term French visa. Plus, I had to close down Law Offices of Jay W. MacIntosh. It was complicated with snags galore, but we did it. And, here we are.

Hopefully, this blog will be the forum for me to explain how we did it – especially at this time in our lives. I am older than Steve – by 13 years, so moving home – lock, stock, and barrel, is not the norm. But, going to law school at age 59 was not the norm either. And, going from Georgia to the University of Wisconsin was not the norm. Moving a family and furnishings from Georgia to California was not the norm. So, I can say – I was not the norm. Neither was Steve. So, I am going to write about France, moving to France, and living in France – from my perspective. I plan to post pictures and write about the setting. Don’t expect this to be a travelogue — no.

This is my first post. Welcome aboard.  BY JAY W. MACINTOSH”

I wrote three more posts that same day – “Our New Home in Nice”, “The Neighborhood – Cimiez”, and “Monastere de Cimiez”. 

On August 2, 2016, Steve was rushed to the hospital with double pneumonia. He died on August 31, 2016, from heart failure after a month’s stay in the hospital.  

During September 2016, I had a very difficult time, reeling from shock and grief. I did not think I could continue writing a “blog” alone. It seemed so trivial.  Then, I changed my mind. I thought it might help to post my thoughts about what had happened. On September 30, 2016, I published my next post on Jayspeak, “Dying While Making Plans”.

Since then, I have written a lot of posts on Jayspeak, now memorialized in a book, “JAYSPEAK on the Cote D’Azur”.  The book is filled with posts and pictures of two wonderful and traumatic years. Dedicated to the love of my life – Steve Orlandella.  For sale on amazon.com.  If you buy it, read it, and like it, please post a review for me on amazon.com. That helps a lot.  

 

jaywmacintosh_a1 (1)

Best, Jay

unnamed

AUGUST 2017

Nothing is quite like the month of August.  Someone should write a song – like Gilbert and Sullivan. Something like “It’s May. It’s May. The Lusty Month of May!”  ALL of France goes on “holiday”. The rest of the world comes to town – to eat, to swim, to sunbathe, to dance, to sight-see.  Tourist shops thrive.  Hotels are full.  Rates are high.  Bushes are green; trees are leafed; roses are ripe; school is out; fruit is plentiful; skies are blue; life is lush.

Nothing is quite like the month of August for me.  

August are birthdays galore. Carole’s birthday, Alice’s birthday, Rosemary’s birthday, Uncle Beamus’ birthday, Beth Ann’s birthday, Jon’s birthday, Ada’s birthday, Buddy’s birthday, Cory’s birthday, Aunt Rose’s birthday, Jean’s birthday, Lois’ birthday, Lorrie’s birthday, Hugh’s birthday, Cyrus’ birthday, Jerry’s birthday, and Chris’ birthday. (Haha – that list goes on forever.)

Monday, August 7, is my twelfth wedding anniversary.  On August 7, 2005, I married the man of my dreams, Steve Orlandella. It was a Sunday in the Bellagio Hotel’s Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas. We were surrounded by family and friends –  Auntie Rose, Uncle Gerry, Ben, Jeff, John, Gina, Dante, Dom, Stefano, Renata, Francesca.

Wedding

wedding4

Wedding3

Orlandella Wedding Group

Friday, August 11, is Steve’s birthday. On August 11, 1950, Therese and Vito Orlandella had a son, Felice Steven Orlandella. He would have been 67.

Pic-1Pic-2Pic-4Pic-3Therese 1950Christmas 1950Thursday, August 31, is Steve’s death day. On August 31, 2016, Felice Steven Orlandella was taken off machines by French doctors at Hopital l’Archet, in Nice, France, after a stay of one month – August – in the hospital. He died of heart failure after surviving double pneumonia. Why am I posting this shot? Because he suffered for the whole month of August, like this.  It breaks my heart.  His birthday, his anniversary, his life he lost in August.  Somehow, it is important that we understand with him, for a moment, how he must have suffered.

IMG_3371

This is the way I will remember him – vibrant, sexy, alive, and happy.  My Sweetheart, forever.

Pic-5

My Month of August will never go by unnoticed.

Best, Jay

img_0922

THE ENGLISH TEACHER – “MOI”

My house-guest, Aline, was fifteen. She had turned fifteen on June 30, 2017.  This was her first time away from home on her own without family.  I met her at her home in Paris when Steve and I were there during Christmas 2015. We had rented a room in the Marais through Airbnb from her parents, Severine and Hugues. At that time, we met her, her parents, and her grandmother Chantal. We did not meet her brother Charles. I am not sure why. They were all on their way to be with family outside of Paris for the holidays.

2CD714F8-AA40-46B3-9048-F36D064EA898

After that, Severine and I stayed in touch by email, communicating in French. This spring, she asked if I knew someone English who would let Aline spend a week this summer. She wanted her children to have English as a second language and thought spending a week in an English home would help. Charles was “booked” with a family in London for a week. She needed someone for Aline.  I responded with a resounding, “Yes. I would!”  Thus, we made plans for Aline to come for a week in July.

In anticipation of Aline’s time with me, I devised a “Plan”. I would prepare lesson plans focused on interesting English conversations – favorite foods, movies, television programs, pet peeves, and such. Topics that would be fun for a teenager to discuss with a “teacher’. We would have a “roving” classrooms – a cafe, the Park, the beach, the living room, or wherever. Fun to discuss.  Decide topics on the fly. Play most things by ear.

Compelling Conversations

Aline arrived on Thursday afternoon, a week ago. Grandmother Chantal and brother Charles dropped her off. (Chantal lives in St. Raphael – an hour up the road. Aline and Charles are spending the summer with her.) So, that night, we got to know each other and ordered out for Mambo Pizza.

Right away, I liked her. She had a beautiful smile with a twinkle in her eye. Liked to laugh.  So did I.  She was easy-going, helpful, friendly, polite, decisive, and intelligent. Plus, she liked to cook. We felt at ease around each other. Her English was so-so. It got better as the week progressed. 

 

Here’s what happened with my “Plan” (something about ‘life happens while you are making other plans’, or something like that….).  Aline slept late every day.  So, working during mornings was out.  Her breakfast was at noon; our lunch was before 2:00 pm; our dinner at 8:00 pm.  OK.  Recalculating….  Go with the flow.  In the mornings, I wrote while she slept.  After that, we went somewhere for lunch.  Then, we did something after that. SO, after we got home, we both needed alone-time.  My “plan” went out the window.  No matter.  Since “focused” sessions were out, unfocused sessions were in.  We gabbed for hours in English.  I only spoke French if I needed her to understand what I was saying.  Haha. That was always good for a laugh.

Our first entire day together – Friday, we went to the grocery store. She wanted to make chicken and pasta with cream sauce for dinner.  Yes!  So, we bought groceries for chicken and pasta with cream sauce (yum), Italian salad (tomatoes, mozzarella, and avocado), Italian dressing, rice, prosciutto, potatoes to roast and dice, chocolate, Nutella, and yellow-meat peaches. Haha.  We got it all.  Then, with the trunk packed full, we drove all over Nice looking for a Paul’s Bakery that sold brioche. Apparently, brioche covered with Nutella (chocolate and nuts) is her favorite breakfast.  We found a Paul’s Bakery with brioche (after driving all over Nice) at Boulangerie Paul République Nice, near Place Garibaldi.  She was happy.  Thus, I was happy.  It was so much fun that I forgot that driving in Nice is a pain in the a…  I used my Waze app on the iPhone, and she helped. All went well.  Once we got home, we had a hour-long language session before we retired for needed alone-time.  That night, she cooked pasta and chicken with cream sauce.  I made a salad.  That worked!

Saturday, we ventured into town to Nice Etoile.  She wanted to go to Hollister’s and a couple of other stores in the mall. So, we shopped (gabbing in English the entire time). 

4AA3CD71-7B33-456B-8A58-B3417AABD21C

E278F28C-EA06-40DB-8639-4C77856CE824

Then we walked to the Sea for lunch at one of my favorites – La Voglia.  We ate inside. Neither of us liked outside that day.  Too hot.  

53656621-669A-4EB8-A523-47C5D5B0431E

No one-on-one session that day. We were both hot and exhausted once we got home, needing alone-time.  That night, we had fresh salmon and salad.  

Sunday was an at-home day.  I completed my book – “JAYSPEAK ON THE COTE D’AZUR”.  Aline did stuff on her computer and on her phone.  She is very technologically savvy.  Her entire family is technologically savvy.  They all stay in touch with each other throughout the day every day.   However, on Sunday, we did manage to have a one-on-one session before the day was over.  During that time, I made note – her English was definitely better. 

Monday, we had lunch at Plage Beau Rivage Restaurant.   On the beach. 

9DB6F891-47DC-4F4D-9175-76B62B1E3A235B333380-6EE5-4067-AB97-3DED7ADFCD6770D10BCC-69A0-4D50-B326-0CF24FD9387C170C252A-6383-405D-9E24-1EF328D2157BCB24B076-A65F-4417-98E0-7B0EB4B81819

Great food. Wonderful service. Gorgeous setting.  As we were leaving, Aline said that everyone thought she was English.  I considered that a compliment.  I doubt she did.  The French love being French.

1A8199D5-F472-49F7-8A31-70B0FC50BC53

 

Tuesday, Aline went with me to my appointment for new orthotics.

104B13CE-FF35-4BDF-BF6E-559C60A2AF70

After that, we met Andrea for lunch at Le Volupté Anytime.  That was the day that Aline asked me to go to the Apple Store. She wanted Apple EarPods.  What?  Earpods.  The Apple Store???   

earpods

The only Apple Store in Nice is at Cap 3000 (ugh} out near the airport.  Big Ugh.  Hugh ugh!  Traffic, construction, and complicated directions.  I convinced her to call another store that sells Apple products, MCS, to see if they have Apple Earpods.  Yes!!   We walked for miles (exaggeration) getting there, and miles (exaggeration) getting back to the car, which was parked at Nice Etoile.  But, it was worth it!  They had Apple EarPods.  Only 3 were left after we got there from a shipment of 30 that morning.  Apparently, Apple Earpods are a hot item.   Aline was ecstatic.  So was I – once I could sit down, have some coffee, and eat ice cream (hot day).

Wednesday was another “sort of” at-home day. We walked to the park for a language session and lunch. It was nice. We found a park bench in the shade and worked for a while.  Then, we walked over to the Park Café for sandwiches. 

IMG_0114

It was fun. Picked up a couple of things at Monoprix on our way home – gabbing in English and French the entire time.

It was an amazing week.  I consider it a smashing success.  I had no idea how it would go, and it went great!  Aline speaks better English.  She has EarPods.  I speak better French.  I have new recipes.  We are Facebook and Instagram friends.  She is happy.  I hope her parents are happy.  I hope her grandmother is happy.  Charles acts happy.  I am happy.  It’s all good.

Best, Jay

IMG_1965

 

POETRY

| WRITTEN BY KRAGE

Poetry Pop Poetry Blog

Put a pop of poetry in your day!

Rattle: Poetry

… without pretension since 1995.

Living Poetry

A group of poets and poetry readers.

Poetry Blog

I write poetry to express what's on my mind or how I feel

Poetry For Healing

Finding Your Words

New Zealand Poetry Society

Supporting and promoting poets and poetry in New Zealand

You And Poetry

Dear Stranger

Poetry Breakfast

Serving a little poetic nourishment Monday thru Friday and featuring a Short Play Saturday Matinee to read.

Poetry Academe

Your sole poetry school

Morning Star Poetry

Light shall shine out of darkness!

DAYS OF OUR LIVES

The days of our lives

JAYSPEAK

Welcome to My World!

WORDKET

-Chase the Stories

RL WEB

MAKING LIFE BETTER

Chris Rogers The Actor

SAG-AFTRA Actor, WordPress Presenter, & Public Speaker