It is not easy living alone anywhere after the death of a spouse when you are older and independent. Soooooo One idea is embrace your fear How ? I don’t know how ! I just ask the questions…… Fear of what ? I don’t know. Fear of change. Getting better. A Celebrated psychoanalyst Adam PhillipsContinue reading “EMBRACE YOUR FEAR AND ENLARGE YOUR UNIVERSE-BOTH AT THE SAME TIME! DO IT ANYWAY……..”
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A Light in the Dark….
If everyone lit just one little candle, it would be better than to glow in the dark. That’s on my mind today.y This is my birthday week and I am happy everything is going well ! I have problems and my problems have Problems ! But I have a plan… The Plan – ChezContinue reading “A Light in the Dark….”
MORE CHOICES ON MARCH 17, 2023
I am looking forward to my birthday and have lots of ideas for things to do next year. Is my apartment a playground or a prison ? Both. I want a playground. But most of all I am happy to be alive and living from day to day. I am sorry I downsized andContinue reading “MORE CHOICES ON MARCH 17, 2023”
Lies v.Truth
I dont know what the truth is anymore . Everyone lies. Has it always been like that? I don’t think so .So I can just make it up., I can decide what is true and what is not. Ugh I dont want that job! Ugh ugh I don’t have a choice. It comes with theContinue reading “Lies v.Truth”
CURVE BALLS with love FROM PARIS from Jay!
This has been on my mind this past week…….. Life is full of unexpected twists and turns, and sometimes we find ourselves in situations that we cannot change. It can be frustrating and disheartening, but it’s important to remember that these challenges are not meant to defeat us, but to inspire us to change ourselves.Continue reading “CURVE BALLS with love FROM PARIS from Jay!”
CHOICES
This is on my mind… Life is a choice., live or die !! I don’t want to die, so I need to live. And that is the hard part after this pandemic. I thought I would die . And actually I was happy staying inside for a lonnnnnng time. Now is time to get outContinue reading “CHOICES”
OCTOBER – NO COMMENT COMMENTARY
This is on my mind… I am glad to see October move on out Why? I don’t know but I am. I was glad to see August go and September go and now October go. I don’t like this year. Period. Pollyanna has lost her bloom and Annie has not seen her sun yet. Ugh.Continue reading “OCTOBER – NO COMMENT COMMENTARY”
OCTOBER- BUILD IT ANEW
This is on my mind … JAYSPEAK spent September letting go and plans to spend October building it anew NEW OPPORTUNITIES, NEW ENERGY, NEW MINDSET, NEW CONNECTIONS. 💜 It is your choice how you want to build yours. I am working on mine. These memes help me think…. Enjoy…. Best, Jay/Janet
THE CHERRY TREE AND THE FUNNIES
I don’t have any patience with liars. Well that is not true because Steve was a liar and I loved him anyway But as a rule I have a problem with it. I want to know the truth I told the truth and got into trouble as a result. My friends would lie knowing IContinue reading “THE CHERRY TREE AND THE FUNNIES”
SEPTEMBER – THE MONTH OF LETTING GO
This is a collection of thoughts I have put together. Each thought speaks to me about September – the Season of Letting Go It is the season of letting go and free yourself of the dead weight that you have been carrying around and shed your leaves. It is time for the new thoughts andContinue reading “SEPTEMBER – THE MONTH OF LETTING GO”
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