This is on my mind this week…. I am so glad I am old and alive. I don’t want to die. Not yet. I still have things that I want to do. Just some thoughts about getting old and getting older as a woman with three grown children and grandchildren….. __________ Thought 1: What doesContinue reading “GROWING OLD IN PARIS AND LOVING IT FROM JAY WITH LOVE”
Category Archives: PONDERINGS
BUILDING BRIDGES
This is on my mind this week….. I think that we need to be building bridges rather than putting up walls to keep people out. Are we building bridges or putting up walls? I am doing both but I am trying to build bridges! Except if I don’t get treated well, I put up aContinue reading “BUILDING BRIDGES”
EMBRACE YOUR FEAR AND ENLARGE YOUR UNIVERSE-BOTH AT THE SAME TIME! DO IT ANYWAY……..
It is not easy living alone anywhere after the death of a spouse when you are older and independent. Soooooo One idea is embrace your fear How ? I don’t know how ! I just ask the questions…… Fear of what ? I don’t know. Fear of change. Getting better. A Celebrated psychoanalyst Adam PhillipsContinue reading “EMBRACE YOUR FEAR AND ENLARGE YOUR UNIVERSE-BOTH AT THE SAME TIME! DO IT ANYWAY……..”
COVERUPS!!!
This is on my mind today…: I am starting over again and again and again and again…. Wellllll…. Do you know what a kaleidoscopic shift is? Change!!! So what are you covering up? It is changed and you are being paid to cover it up ? I don’t understand ? It is changed indeed andContinue reading “COVERUPS!!!”
A Light in the Dark….
If everyone lit just one little candle, it would be better than to glow in the dark. That’s on my mind today.y This is my birthday week and I am happy everything is going well ! I have problems and my problems have Problems ! But I have a plan… The Plan – ChezContinue reading “A Light in the Dark….”
MORE CHOICES ON MARCH 17, 2023
I am looking forward to my birthday and have lots of ideas for things to do next year. Is my apartment a playground or a prison ? Both. I want a playground. But most of all I am happy to be alive and living from day to day. I am sorry I downsized andContinue reading “MORE CHOICES ON MARCH 17, 2023”
CURVE BALLS with love FROM PARIS from Jay!
This has been on my mind this past week…….. Life is full of unexpected twists and turns, and sometimes we find ourselves in situations that we cannot change. It can be frustrating and disheartening, but it’s important to remember that these challenges are not meant to defeat us, but to inspire us to change ourselves.Continue reading “CURVE BALLS with love FROM PARIS from Jay!”
OCTOBER – NO COMMENT COMMENTARY
This is on my mind… I am glad to see October move on out Why? I don’t know but I am. I was glad to see August go and September go and now October go. I don’t like this year. Period. Pollyanna has lost her bloom and Annie has not seen her sun yet. Ugh.Continue reading “OCTOBER – NO COMMENT COMMENTARY”
THE CHERRY TREE AND THE FUNNIES
I don’t have any patience with liars. Well that is not true because Steve was a liar and I loved him anyway But as a rule I have a problem with it. I want to know the truth I told the truth and got into trouble as a result. My friends would lie knowing IContinue reading “THE CHERRY TREE AND THE FUNNIES”
FULL CIRCLE AND THE SUNDAY FUNNIES
I am developing my emotional intelligence Huh? What ???? Yes, you heard me. My emotional intelligence!!!!! And the topic for today’s symposium is the alpha and omega in my famous father at the same time- a drunk and gambler and womanizer and a family man who loved people and wanted to help others and hisContinue reading “FULL CIRCLE AND THE SUNDAY FUNNIES”
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